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GUIDE TO ESCORT BOOKING ETIQUETTE

There are a lot of unwritten rules and guidelines when it comes to booking an escort, we’ve written this guide to help you navigate your way through. It is recommended to take all of this information under advisement before you first book an escort. Read our guide on how to book an escort if you want to move to the next step.

To ensure you have a fun time with your companion, it’s a good idea to avoid embarassing yourself or upsetting her – you can only benefit from reading this.

 

MANNERS

First and foremost, throughout the booking process and during the booking itself you should conduct yourself with manners, be polite and be friendly. We hope we did’t need to tell you this, it should go without saying. Showing good etiquette will provide you the same in return, and a happy escort creates a happier ending. Do not be rude or impatient, it sets a bad tone.

 

FOLLOW PROTOCOL

When you are on an escorts personal site or agency gallery, it can help significantly to read what they’ve written on their profile or contact us page. Sometimes there will be specific booking information, such as availability or travel times. You should always take a quick look just in case there are prudent details you need to know before booking. Being informed shows you have made the effort and are not a time waster.

 

FIRST MESSAGES

You can contact us via WhatsApp on +44 7453656812, or using our online email form. If necessary we can call you too, let us know and with your permission we will arrange a phone call.

In your first message please have any details required for your date on hand to ensure best chances of booking success:

  • CITY – We cover every major countries, including USA, London and Europe.
  • TIME & DATE – You need to let us know exactly what day and time you are planning the encounter.
  • DURATION – Booking length begins at one hour, longer can be arranged at a great discount.
  • LOCATION – (incall or your hotel/residence)

 

RESPECT THE AGENCY AND THE MODELS TIME

Agencies can be very busy and get a lot of inquiries, and models lead busy daytime lives. When dealing with them be patient and understand the value of their time. Please be the gentleman you are, show respect.

 

PERSONAL INFORMATION & DISCRETION

Both parties are entitled to consensually have a good time. It can be very disrespectful to ask for personal details, many escorts keep the adult entertainment part of their life entirely separate, and do not want to risk any sort of crossover. For our models safety and your own it is strictly forbidden to exchange numbers or any other private information.

 

HYGIENE

It is expected of you to turn up for your date clean and smelling nice. This is an unwritten rule but you should abide by it. Do not be offended if your escort ends up asking you to take a shower or clean yourself at the beginning of a booking.

 

SCREENING IS NORMAL

First time bookers may be asked to provide additional information and screening to plan a booking. This is a common way to establish you as a safe and serious customer, it may also include a deposit. Bear in mind that this should establish duty of care, and any reliable escort provider will extend the same confidentiality and safety to you as a courtesy.

 

PAYMENT OPTIONS

It is considered highly insulting to ask for a discount on a short booking. However, longer durations such as a weekend or longer away may be negotiable. Read the room, and be ready to pay via your preferred method when it is appropriate. Cash will always be accepted, but there are usually a range of payment options:

  • Bank account
  • Venmo
  • Paypal
  • Revolut
  • Debit or credit card

 

GIFT POLICY

Should you buy or bring anything to the date? Small gifts are not expected but will be appreciated. It should not be anything expensive, do not spend a large amount of money on presents. Perhaps some flowers/chocolate/perfume could help break the ice and set a more romantic tone for a date. However it remains entirely at your discretion, you are already paying for time and companionship.

 

MORE ESCORT INDUSTRY GUIDES

We strongly recommend you check out our Gentleman’s booking guide if you read through this article. It is the perfect way to brush up on current escort etiquette and how to prepare yourself for a booking. It is also useful if you have anxiety or are worried about setting up an appointment with an escort.

Our Frequently Asked Questions are a great way to to get quick answers on commonly asked topics.

 

ABOUT DISCREET ELITE

Discreet Elite is a high class companionship agency that represents the world’s elite entertainers. This includes fashion and commercial models, actresses, TV presenters along with fresh students and the prettiest girls next door. All of these courtesans offer their time and companionship exclusively through our agency.

We are a professional service and aim to please. Provide all your booking details and requirements in the first message to guarantee a fast response from our team.

The range of models on our books (as well as off-books (members) is diversified, bringing a highly unique array of escorts available worldwide.

 

Terms & Conditions

Terms & Conditions
Privacy Policy

Access to this website is granted only to individuals who accept the following Terms and Conditions. By entering, you also agree to our [Privacy Policy] and consent to the processing of your personal data in accordance with the General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR).

1. Company Representation

1.1. Discreet Elite™

Discreet Elite™ is a registered and operated talent marketing and booking agency. We represent independent companions from a range of professional backgrounds including, but not limited to: fashion, entertainment, athletics, and the arts.

1.2. Age & Health Compliance

All persons featured on this website were at least 21 years of age at the time their images were provided. To the best of our knowledge, no talent represented by Discreet Elite™ has any reported or known physical or mental disability that would impair their ability to provide services during their time of collaboration.

1.3. Model Autonomy

All models represented by Discreet Elite™ have joined the agency voluntarily and of their own accord. Each individual has prior experience and has chosen to collaborate with Discreet Elite™ of their own free will. No individual has been persuaded or coerced in any manner.

1.4. Nature of Services

Discreet Elite™ arranges meetings for time and social companionship only. Our fees represent the booking and coordination of time with a companion. Any personal or intimate interaction that may occur between consenting adults is neither contracted nor facilitated by Discreet Elite™, and remains a private matter between the client and the model. We do not condone or participate in any illegal activities.

1.5. Independent Talent

All companions operate as independent individuals. They set their own fees, determine their own availability, and establish their own boundaries — all of which are respected and non-negotiable.

1.6. Accommodation & Logistics

Discreet Elite™ does not provide accommodation or premises for bookings. We do not arrange housing or temporary lodging for models in any form.

2. Client Screening

To ensure the safety and comfort of our companions and clients, all new customers must complete a respectful screening process.

2.1. Screening Requirements

All bookings require some form of identity verification. The method depends on the nature of the booking:

– Incall bookings: A selfie holding valid photo ID or a £1 transfer to our corporate account (legal name must be visible). A 25% deposit is also required to secure the appointment and prevent no-shows.

– Outcall to a private residence: 25% deposit required in advance.

– Outcall to a 5-star hotel: Full legal name and room number must be provided. Our concierge will discreetly confirm your booking via a direct room call.

– International bookings (USA, Asia, Middle East): Clients must complete a membership application, including full name, LinkedIn profile, and a professional email address. Retired clients may be asked to submit a recent utility bill for verification.

3. Payments, Cancellations & Refunds

3.1. Local Bookings

Local arrangements are confirmed only after a deposit of 40% (in some cases 50%) has been received. This secures the model’s time and guarantees the appointment.

3.2. Accepted Payment Methods

We accept payments via bank transfer and Revolut. Cheques are not accepted.

3.3. Travel Bookings

Travel bookings must be paid in full in advance (100% of the agreed fee). Arrangements will only be confirmed once payment is received.

3.4. Cancellation Terms

– Local bookings: A cancellation fee of 40% of the full amount will be retained to compensate the model and booking coordinator for their time.

– Travel bookings: A 50% cancellation fee applies.

3.5

In the unlikely event that a model is unable to proceed with a confirmed booking due to health-related matters, the Agency will offer a suitable substitute.

3.6

Should the Client request any alteration to the booking — including, but not limited to, the date, duration, location, or any other variable — the Client will be able to choose only from models available for the newly selected arrangements.

If, in such circumstances, the booking does not proceed, the deposit will be credited to the Client’s account. Should these funds be applied towards another booking, an additional fee of 10% of the original total booking cost will be charged to cover the booker’s time and administrative effort.

3.8 Client’s Deposit

The Client’s deposit shall remain valid for a period of eighteen (18) months from the date of payment. Upon the expiry of this period, any unused deposit will be forfeited.

By enforcing a clear validity period and forfeiture policy, the Agency ensures compliance with ANTI-MONEY LAUNDERING REGULATIONS by preventing indefinite retention of client funds, reducing exposure to potential unlawful use of those funds, and demonstrating a controlled, transparent deposit system.

4. Privacy Policy

Discreet Elite™ is committed to maintaining the highest standards of discretion and confidentiality for both clients and companions.

4.1. Data Handling

All client and model data submitted for verification or booking purposes is handled securely and in strict confidence. No personal data is retained after the conclusion of a booking.

4.2. Third-Party Screening

All identity checks are conducted by our trusted sister concierge company. This information is never shared or associated with third-party platforms or matchmaking services.

4.3. Communication

Any communication by phone, email, or bank transfer is only carried out with the client’s consent and is managed with utmost discretion.

4.4. Receipts & Billing

We provide discreet invoices, encrypted payment processing, and confidential receipts. Transactions will appear under a neutral descriptor on your bank statement.

5. Consent to Terms

By using this website and booking services through Discreet Elite™, you confirm that:

– You are at least 21 years of age

– You accept the terms outlined above

– You understand that all bookings are for social time and companionship only

– You agree to respect the boundaries and professionalism of the talent represented

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